December 2024
Social Explorers tend to not be competitive or stubborn. They show their confidence by showing unconditional acceptance and supporting those around them. Do you know anyone (including yourself) who may be a Social Explorer? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
When someone's Core Personality is one of the three possible Connector Personalities, they are likely to care a lot about how and where they fit into the world. Each person's particular approach to finding their place in the world is based on which Connector Personality is in their Triad (whether it is the Social connector, the Ideas Connector, or the Physical connector.) Do you give a lot of time to thinking about how you fit into the world, ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Physical Connectors tend to have a very clear vision of what they want their life to look like. They focus their vision on one or more area of their life. Do you think that your Personality Triad may include an active Physical Connector element? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Personality is a toolbox for surviving and thriving in life. Understanding how personality works can help us better understand the people we care about. Do you ever feel like you've had to use your Personality Toolboxes under such stressful conditions that they got bent out of shape? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Personality is a toolbox that influences all that we think, feel and do. Have you ever had the experience of remembering an event completely differently from how someone else (who was also there) remembers it? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Every Personality Triad has one Explorer Personality, one Changemaker Personality, and one Connector Personality. The Explorer manages love. The Changemaker manages conflict. And the Connector manages our place in the world. Have you ever felt that no matter how many times you try to explain yourself, some people will never understand you? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Matilda is comfortable taking the lead wherever the opportunity is presented within her culture. If Matilda makes it to the U.S., will she... (A) embrace American culture, or (B) hold on to the mindset and traditions she was raised with? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Faith almost always expects more of herself than she expects of others, and takes responsibility for giving those she loves the best life possible. Is Faith's dream of going to the U.S. motivated more by... (A) a desire to help her family, or (B) the opportunities she would get to fulfill her life as a trans woman? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
It seems like Lily has been trying to get money out of Josh since he arrived in China. He made it look like he was trying to pay for the wedding, and blamed technical difficulties for his inability to do so. Was Josh... (A) really trying to access his money so he could pay for the wedding, or (B) pretending to try, knowing it would not go through ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
We've heard Tigerlily say that she does not want more kids. But now she says she and Adnan are trying to have a baby. Is Tigerlily really trying to get pregnant, or is she just playing along? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Trying ♥ Playing ♥ ♥ Previous
A double Personality overlap happens when our Core Personality is one of the other person's Bodyguards, and their Core Personality is one of our Bodyguards. Then each person has a second Bodyguard not shared by the other person. Having a double Personality Overlap can increase romantic compatibility. Have you ever noticed how important it is to have a balance of similarities and differences with your romantic partner? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Every single person is a completely unique individual. Even two people with the same Personality Triad are very different because the way that their Core Personality and Bodyguard Personalities interact is unique to them. Have you had the experience of thinking someone was just like you, only to discover that you are actually very different? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Anyone with an active Physical Changemaker element in their Personality Triad needs to feel physically empowered in their life in order to feel ok. Do you know anyone who you think has an active Physical Changemaker element to their Personality? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Every personality type shows stress in a different way. Have you ever felt judged for the way you deal with stress? Click any Heart that applies... No Yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Personality is a toolbox for surviving and thriving in life. Have you ever felt yourself 'switch gears' when one side of your personality was stuck, prompting you to pivot to another side of your personality? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Matilda has a natural ability to remain diplomatic under stress. Was Matilda rushing to get married because... (A) she worried Niles would change his mind about marrying her, or (B) she had told her family she was getting married, and not having a wedding would be embarrassing? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Faith has a natural elegance that turns even the crudest joke into a charming moment when she delivers it. If Faith made it to Las Vegas, would she stand out and be noticed for her charm and elegance? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ maybe ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Explorer, Meitalia tends to go along with what other people want until her Physical Connector Bodyguard feels that a proverbial line in the sand is being crossed. Then, she will take a stand and hold her ground until her needs are prioritzed. Is it possible that Meitalia could be happy living somewhere in the U.S. (other than Maine) with a warm climate and a strong Indonesian community ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne can tend to live in her head. When Rayne holds on to her optimism despite all the signs that the relationship is over, is she... (A) picking up on any real feelings Chidi has about wishing that it could work out, or (B) just blinded by her own wishful thinking ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
We never see Josh respond to the question of why he has refused to make love with Lily since arriving in China. His Physical Connector Personality would not reveal anything that would embarrass him. Is Josh embarrassed to say why he has not made love with Lily since arriving in China? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Both Tigerlily and Adnan experience love from the Physical Explorer part of their personality. That means they know they are in love when they feel it in their body. Is the chemistry between Tigerlily and Adnan love or lust? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ love ♥ lust ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Explorer, Božo prefers not to judge people or opportunities. Was the plant that Božo rescued from a dumpster to give to Vanja when he met her at the airport... (A) a thoughtful gift, or (B) a thoughtless and offensive insult ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Niles appreciates the value of Matilda's cultural traditions, as well as her need for personal assurances. Does Matilda value Niles more for his heart or for his financial gifts? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ his gifts ♥ his heart ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Faith tends is a naturally direct and clear communicator. Does Loren deserve a partner with as much integrity and beauty as Faith has? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer Core Personality, Veah has the Physical Changemaker Bodyguard which approaches conflict by standing her ground, and expecting the other person to change. What is the bigger problem... (A) Veah bringing her good friend and ex Rory to South Africa, or (B) not telling Sunny that Rory was coming ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Explorer, Meitalia is more willing than many people are to put aside her own preferences for someone else, especially an intimate partner. Who is more responsible for Meitalia moving to the U.S. and marrying James? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ James ♥ Meitalia ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Sarper is very proud, and would probably not be laughing at himself if he was the one coming out of surgery. Were Sarper's comments about how Shekinah looked after surgery completely innocent, or his way of delivering a dig to her for having the surgery even though he asked her not to? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ innocent ♥ dig ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne prioritizes honesty over politeness. Is Chidi's family polite because... (A) they care about people's feelings, or (B) they want to give the impression that they care about people's feelings ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Lily wants every aspect of her life to bring her greater success and honor. Being lied to by Josh about his ex having died makes the relationship feel like a shameful mistake. Has Josh ever cared about Lily's dreams and aspirations? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Tigerlily and Adnan both experience love from the Physical Explorer element of their Personality. Do Tigerlily and Adnan keep repeating how much they love each other because... (A) their love is so strong and true that they have to express it, or (B) they are trying to convince themselves and everyone watching that it's true ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Corona and Ingi are both Physical Personalities, so physical chemistry is very important to both of them. Did Corona and Ingi have any bedroom chemistry during the three months that Corona was in Iceland? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Changemaker Core Personality, James experiences love through his Social Explorer Bodyguard. That means that he feels love in the closeness of the energy between him and his partner. Does James' emotional dependence on Meitalia come from a place of true love, or from a fear of being left without someone to love him? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ fear ♥ love ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Connector, Statler can tend to switch back and forth, from one moment to the next, between thoughts or feelings that contradict each other. Does Statler genuinely care about what Dempsey is feeling? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Explorer, Božo is typically motivated by a desire to avoid any chance of confrontation. Does Božo's disconnect from Vanja have more to do with how he feels about her, or how he feels about himself? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ himself ♥ Vanja ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Niles takes Matilda at face value. Since she has always shown patience and compassion in her communication with him, he expects that she will always continue to do so. Is Matilda planning to change how she communicates with Niles after they get married? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Loren is not likely to stop following his physical urges, or to stop hiding or justifying his actions. Has Loren ever had the intention of changing his non-monogomous lifestyle for Faith? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Connector, Joanne usually shows only a small part of what is going on in her mind. Was Joanne actually working all along on plans to bring Sean to the U.S. ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Explorer, Sunny has the Social Changemaker Bodyguard which is particularly sensitive to feeling hurt when his efforts to give are not valued. When Veah turned down the food Sunny had brought for her after arriving at the hotel from the airport, should she have been more sensitive in the way she let him know that she didn't want it? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Sarper has an entirely Physical Personality Triad. So it is natural for him to be focused on how any events going on around him affect him personally. Was Sarper's motivation to take care of Shekinah more about... (A) her needs, or (B) his own sense of control ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker Core Personality, Rayne experiences love through her Ideas Explorer Bodyguard which is very careful about sharing her intimate thoughts and feelings only with those she trusts. Did Chidi's sister Victoria have the right to ask Rayne if she and Chidi had sex yet? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Josh tends to be uncomfortable with emotional vulnerability, his and others'. Who is more emotionally available? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Josh ♥ Lily ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Tigerlily tends to let how she feels in the moment override concerns about the future. Does Tigerlily continue to act surprised at Adnan's gender double standard because (A) she really believes her logic will influence him to change his attitude, or (B) she doesn't notice how deeply ingrained his chauvinism is even though everyone else notices it ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Corona needs to feel that she is taken seriously and respected. Was Corona... (A) feeling genuinely in love with Ingi the whole time she was in Iceland, or (B) putting on a show for the cameras ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Changemaker, James is hurt by knowing that he is disappointing anyone in his life. If James thought that Meitalia would leave him if he did not agree to have kids, would he agree to it? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Connector, Joanne sees a world of infinite possibilities. Was Joanne genuinely surprised that her sons reacted with such resistance to the idea of moving to Ireland? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Lily focuses on making her relationships successful. Does Lily bring up the past because... (A) she is just stuck in the past, or (B) she feels that the success of her marriage depends on working out the issues ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Dempsey does not feel like she is lying as long as what she is saying is true in the moment, even if she thinks it might change in the future. Has Dempsey ever thought seriously about wanting to get married? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Ingi does everything he can to avoid feeling stressed. As a Physical Changemaker, Corona feels stressed any time she does not feel empowered. Does Ingi care at all about what is important to Corona? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Having the Social Connector Core Personality means that Matilda experiences love through her Ideas Explorer Bodyguard which feels love deeply but is wary of showing her vulnerability to the world. Do Matilda's feelings for Niles come from deep in her heart? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
November 2024
Social Personalities base their identity on their relationships. Ideas Personalities base their identity on their thoughts and feelings. Physical Personalities bas their identity on their physical life experience. A person can have one or two of these three personality categories in their Personality Triad. Out of those three personality categories, do you relate to one or more than one category? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ One ♥ More ♥ ♥ Previous
When our Core Personality feels Unconditionally accepted by someone, we feel compatible with them. When our Core Personality does not feel unconditionally accepted, we feel incompatible. Does that statement match up with your relationship experience? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
NEWS Predicting Relationship success: The science behind Personality Pairs Any couple can choose to stay together. But most of us want more. We want to feel happy with our person. So the question is, are some relationships doomed to misery, and others primed to succeed? The answer may surprise you. Yes, we are hardwired to attract and get along with some people more than others. But we are also hardwired with tools that make it possible to forge new and evolving relationship pathways and expand relationship potential. This hardwiring is the foundation of human personality. Every human being is born with a Personality Triad that includes three distinct personality types which operate as toolboxes to help us survive and thrive in life. Of the three personality types in our triad, one functions as our Core Personality while the two others take on the role of Bodyguards. The Bodyguard Personalities serve as backup to the Core Personality when the Core Personality feels mismatched to what life demands from us in that moment. The toolbox that is our Core Personality has the greatest influence on whether or not we feel compatible with someone. When our core personality feels unconditionally accepted by someone, we feel compatible with them. When our core personality does not feel unconditionally accepted by someone, we do not feel compatible with them. Figuring out whether or not we feel compatible with someone can take time. Feeling attracted to someone, or even in love with them, can happen in an instant. The key to managing the complexities of relationship lies in our particular personality triad. Within every triad, there is one Explorer personality toolbox, one Changemaker personality toolbox, and one Connector personality toolbox. The Explorer toolbox is in charge of how we love. The Changemaker toolbox is in charge of how we approach anything we want to change. And the Connector toolbox is in charge of how we connect to the world. Each of these personality toolbox categories (Explorer, Changemaker and Connector) can be a Social Personality, an Ideas Personality, or a Physical Personality. For two people in a relationship, it is the interaction between their individual Explorer Personalities that determines their love experience. It is the interaction between their individual Changemaker Personalities that determines how they work out conflict. And it is the interaction between their individual Connector Personalities that determines whether or not their lifestyles align. From the moment we are born, individuality develops as our Core and Bodyguard Personalities keep learning from and responding to one another within our ever-changing environment. Understanding these living dynamics that are forever in motion is the key to predicting whether a relationship will feel sustainable. It is also key to creating empowering relationship stories that are as rich in drama as they are successful. There is a common perception that any reality tv couple not on the verge of a break up must think they are better than everyone else, and will never be as interesting to watch. It seems that [...]
October 2024
As a Physical Connector, Faith looks for practical solutions to any kind of problem. Between Faith and Loren, who is more likely to fall truly in love with the other person?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Loren ♥ Faith ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Vanja needs to believe that she has the power to create change in her life. Is Božo intimidated by Vanja? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Chidi likes being part of mainstream society. As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne likes marching to the beat of her own drum. If Rayne was more polite, but still had her unconventional opinions, would Chidi want to stay in the relationship? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Veah has a very active Ideas Connector Bodyguard in her Personality Triad. So even when her body is still, her mind is usually racing. Between Veah and Sunny, who tries to understand with the other more?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Sunny ♥ Veah ♥ ♥ Previous
Sarper has an entirely Physical Personality Triad. So he sees words as tools to get what he wants in the physical world. Would Sarper be upset if Shekinah lied to him the way he lies to her?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Giving Tigerlily her own dressing room for the wedding would have made it more difficult for Adnan to monitor and control her. Did Adnan intentionally not give Tigerlily her own dressing room for the wedding?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Matilda has the Social Changemaker Bodyguard. That means that her approach to making life better and getting what she needs is to give others what they need. Is Matilda going to continue showing all the love for Niles after they get married?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Niles has the skills to manage the intense, at times overwhelming demands that come with being a 90-day cast member on the spectrum. Does the fact that Niles is on the Spectrum influence how Matilda feels about him at all?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Matilda does everything she can to manifest her big picture vision for a successful life and marriage. Is the reason Matilda wants to marry Niles as soon as possible because (A) she loves him, or (B) she and her family need the money that would come with a marriage ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
One of Veah's Personality Bodyguards is the Ideas Connector. It usually responds to life events by flooding the mind with a rush of conflicting thoughts and feelings, causing Veah to feel overwhelmed and anxious. Does Sunny understand the extent of Veah's struggles with anxiety?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Explorer, Sunny fully absorbed the culture that raised him. Because he grew up in a fundamentalist Muslim culture where men's dignity is associated with how women treat them, Sunny feels like he has no choice but to reject Veah for doing something that offends him. Is Sunny's real reason for pushing Veah away more about (A) fear that she does not love him, or (B) doubting his own feelings toward her?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Veah's Physical Explorer Core Personality wants, more than anything, to feel good in the moment in her body. Because Veah's childhood did not usually offer her opportunities to feel good in her body, her Core Personality deferred to the Bodyguard Personalities which gave her tools to feel like she had some say in her life. Does Veah's anxiety about traveling by herself to South Africa mean that she is having doubts about her feelings for Sunny?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, when Loren says something that is true for him in that moment, no matter what changes later, he would not see that as a lie. Is Loren intentionally deceiving Faith when he shares information about his life?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
The Explorer element in Faith's Personality Triad is the Social Explorer. That means that feeling in love comes from the the way her partner treats her and relates to her in the social space they share. Even when Faith is disappointed with Loren in some way, do his attentive and thoughtful actions make her feel closer to him?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Ingrid is naturally diplomatic. Is Ingrid's choice to not walk away from Brian more about (A) a feeling of being in love with him, or (B) a decision to handle the relationship diplomatically ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Brian requires a physical sense of empowerment in order to feel motivated in his life. Does Brian's desire to have sex with Ingrid have more to do with (A) a feeling of being in love with Ingrid, or (B) not wanting to face that he may not have the ability to seduce her?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
September 2024
Josh is not feeling the Social Explorer love that is so important for him. And he is not the kind of person who can fake what he is feeling. If Josh could fake his feelings, would he give Lily what she has been wanting in the bedroom? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Josh loves the culture and arts of China. If Josh and Lily do not stay together, will Josh want to... (A) return to the U.S., or (B) stay in China? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Lily has the Ideas Explorer love Bodyguard. So she wants to feel love as a magical fairytale. As a Physical Connector, Josh has the Social Explorer love Bodyguard. So he needs to feel love in a social interaction of unconditional acceptance. Lily said they have not made love since Josh arrived in China. Is the reason Josh has not made love to Lily because... (A) Josh is not feeling the love, or (B) the differences in how they feel love is causing a disconnect ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Shekinah is most likely to be compatible with someone whose Personality Triad has a Social Explorer Core, which accepts people unconditionally, and is the exact opposite of Sarper's Personality. If Shekinah and Sarper do not stay together, will Shekinah's next relationship be with someone who is... (A) controlling like Sarper, or (B) noticeably different from Sarper ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Shekinah is no longer ok with Sarper controlling every aspect of her life. Is Sarper still trying to win Shekinah back because... (A) he thinks that he will be able to control her again, or (B) losing control over her actually increases his obsession with her ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Sarper expects to fix the situation by showing his power, smashing the bottles and burning the black book. Will Sarper ever be ready, willing and able to give Shekinah what she really needs from him? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne has fewer options for people she might be compatible with, than other personalities might have. If Rayne and Chidi do not stay together, will she find love back in the U.S.? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Chidi prefers to avoid confrontation by leaning into rules and structure. So when he realized (before Rayne came to Nigeria) that he did not want to be sexual with her, he found a socially acceptable set of rules that would explain his choice. Before Rayne got on a plane to Nigeria, should Chidi have told her about any doubts he was having? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Chidi is naturally even-tempered, and will never feel safe around Rayne's volatile moods. If Chidi felt safer around Rayne, would he still be as committed to his vow of celibacy? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne focuses on thoughts and feelings more than she focuses on physical reality. As a Physical Connector, Chidi focuses mostly on the physical reality of life. In the relationship between Rayne and Chidi, who is being more considerate of the other person? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Rayne ♥ Chidi ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Ingrid wants a relationship that adds to feelings of success in her life. If Brian were not in a wheelchair, would Ingrid and Brian together have the kind of relationship that Ingrid has been trying to find? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Attraction and 'chemistry' are all about feeling wanted. Brian mentioned that sex makes him feel wanted even though his body does not have normal sexual feeling. When Brian and Ingrid are together, does Brian want to feel wanted by Ingrid because... (A) he wants her, or (B) he is just focused on himself? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Brian is even more resistant than most people are to showing the kind of emotional vulnerability necessary for genuine intimacy. While Ingrid and Brian are together, will Brian make any effort to be truly vulnerable and to open up emotionally? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Ingrid focuses on her vision for success, and wants to give her relationship with Brian every chance to be successful. As a couple, do Ingrid and Brian together have the mutual understanding necessary for a successful relationship? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Chidi likes to plan what he will say, especially in front of cameras. When Chidi and Rayne were together at the airport and Chidi said that Rayne was perfect, was he... (A) speaking from the heart, or (B) saying words he had planned before she got there ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne is extremely bothered by dishonesty or a lack of transparency. When Rayne and Chidi are together, and Rayne realizes that Chidi made a vow of celibacy and then hid it from her, will she... (A) forgive Chidi and accept his decision, or (B) continue challenging decision and reasoning ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Rayne thought that Chidi being blind would help her feel more confident about being attractive and desirable. For Rayne and Chidi together in Nigeria, is Chidi's blindness going to... (A) continue being part of what makes Rayne feel emotionally close to him, or (B) add to a disconnect between them ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Chidi really cares about how the different parts of his life fit together. For Rayne and Chidi together, will the different parts of their lives ever be able to fit together in a way that feels natural? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Tigerlily's Physical Explorer Core Personality and Physical Changemaker Bodyguard Personality both resist taking the life coach's feedback seriously. Will the reality of Tigerlily and Adnan together make Tigerlily take her life coach more seriously? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
For Tigerlily's Physical Explorer Personality, it is very important to feel good in her body and about her body. When Tigerlily and Adnan are together, is Adnan completely honest about being attracted to Tigerlily more than he is to any other woman? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Adnan wants to feel that he has the power in the relationship. When Tigerlily and Adnan are together, who really has the power? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Adnan ♥ Tigerlily ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Dempsey wants to believe that if she ignores a problem, it will go away. When Statler and Dempsey are together, if Dempsey focused more on why Statler is stressed, would Statler... (A) meet Dempsey half way by really trying to have a more positive attitude, or (B) still stay completely in her negative headspace ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Dempsey's way of maturing is to shift her focus from her short-term happiness to her long-term happiness. For Statler and Dempsey together as a couple, does long-term happiness mean the same thing? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Statler's Core Ideas Connector Personality is one of Dempsey's Personality Bodyguards. And Dempsey's Core Physical Explorer Personality is one of Statler's Bodyguards. Will Statler and Dempsey together figure out how to develop their Personality Bodyguards so that they can feel more compatible ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
The feel-good vibe of Statler's Physical Explorer Personality Bodyguard is only active when Statler is doing something that makes her feel 100% good in her body. For Statler and Dempsy together, is there any time other than sexual time or being with bees that Statler will ever be the person Dempsey wants her to be? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Sarper's Physical Connector Personality Bodyguard really wants the world to see him as well put together. When Shekinah and Sarper together go to therapy, will Sarper trust that the therapist has the impression he wants her to have of who he is? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Shekinah wants her partner to have perfectionist qualities. So she doesn't mind that Sarper is so particular about everything. When Shekinah and Sarper are together, does Sarper... (A) let Shekinah see who he really is, or (B) hide some of his thoughts and feelings from her ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Sarper is not comfortable with the kind of vulnerability that individual therapy would require. Do Sarper and Shekinah together have what it takes to have a healthy relationship? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Take our Couples Decoder quiz about 90 Day Fiance Ingrid and Brian. Let us know your opinion - will Ingrid and Brian stay together? Are Ingrid and Brian compatible? Which do you identify with more between Ingrid and Brian's personality?
Take our Couples Decoder quiz about 90 Day Fiance Ingrid and Brian. Let us know your opinion - will Ingrid and Brian stay together? Are Ingrid and Brian compatible? Which do you identify with more between Ingrid and Brian's personality?
Ingrid's Social Connector personality and Brian's Physical Changemaker personality would both rather lead than follow. When Ingrid and Brian are together, who will put in more of an effort to make the relationship work for the other person? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Brian ♥ Ingrid ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Ingrid puts a lot of intention into achieving success in every aspect of her life. When Ingrid and Brian are together in Brazil, will Ingrid focus more on... (A) how it would feel to have a successful life in the US, or (B) how it would feel to have a romantic relationship with Brian ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Brian can stay motivated to push through the toughest of challenge as long as he believes in his own ability to change his life for the better. When Ingrid and Brian are together in Brazil, will Brian focus more on Ingrid or himself? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Ingrid ♥ himself ♥ ♥ Previous
Faith's Personality Love Bodyguard is the Social Explorer which craves acceptance and belonging. When Faith and Loren are together in the Philipines, will the acceptance and belonging Loren gives Faith be enough to make her want to stay in an open relationship with him? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Loren prioritizes feeling good in his body. After Faith and Loren are together in the Philipines, will Faith ever give Loren the physical intimacy he really wants? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Faith cares a lot about being as accepted and respected as possible in mainstream society. After Faith and Loren are together in the Philipines, will Faith stay with Loren even though he is not going back to the US? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Rayne and Chidi both have personalities that are not naturally flexible. Rayne's Ideas Changemaker personality and Chidi's Physical Connector personality generally expect the other person to accept their point of view. Will Rayne and Chidi together ever get to feel like a couple that understands and supports who each other is ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Changemaker, Rayne can be extremely persistent in trying to prove that her truth is the real truth. With Rayne and Chidi together in Nigeria, will Rayne... (A) give up on trying to change Chidi's spiritual beliefs, or (B) keep trying to convince Chidi to accept her alien spirituality theory ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Chidi has the Social Explorer Love Bodyguard which experiences love as a social interaction. Will Rayne and Chidi together in Nigeria build a love that fulfills Chidi's Social Explorer ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Rayne's Personality Love Bodyguard is the Ideas Explorer which feels love in the deepest part of her soul. After Rayne and Chidi are finally together, will Rayne's love for Chidi... (A) become stronger or, (B) lose momentum ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Adnan expects to be dominant in his marriage the way men typically are in his Jordanian culture . When Tigerlily and Adnan are together, will Tigerlily obey Adnan the way he expects? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Tigerlily has an Ideas Connector Personality Bodyguard which can get triggered into anxiety whenever she is not feeling good in her body. Will Tigerlily have less anxiety or more anxiety after Tigerlily and Adnan are together? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Less ♥ More ♥ ♥ Previous
Tigerlily's team of glam service providers play the role of 'friends' in her life, giving the impression that she has no real friends. When Tigerlily and Adnan are together, will Tigerlily... (A) embrace more of her own real feelings and a desire for real friends, or (B) keep wanting to stay in control of any feelings and relationships she has ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Dempsey is comfortable saying things that she convinces herself are true in that moment, even if that creates false, long-term expectations in the other person. When Dempsey revealed to Statler that she had money, did she... (A) have the intention to be transparent with Statler, or (B) just forget about maintaining the lie, and slip up in the moment ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Statler's Ideas Connector Core Personality tends to jump back and forth between different thoughts and feelings. But if Statler's Ideas Changemaker Bodyguard is triggered, she will stay focused on what's bothering her until she has done something that makes her feel better about it. Now that Statler knows that Dempsey lied to her about not having money, will Statler want to regain the trust they used to have together? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Ingi generally does not respond when someone says something that makes him uncomfortable because he has the attitude that if he ignores it, it will go away. Which makes Ingi more uncomfortable... (A) his parents talking about wanting grandchildren, or (B) Corona's family talking about his commitment to stay together with her ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
For Corona's Physical Changemaker personality, risks are worth it because she craves adventure, and the greater the risk, the greater the adventure. If Ingi wants to get married and live a low-key life in Iceland, will Corona... (A) be happy that he wants to stay together forever in Iceland, or (B) be disappointed that he is not adventurous enough to want to leave Iceland with her ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Ingi lives in the moment / for the moment, and is not focused on long-term plans. Does Ingi have any real intention of staying together with Corona long-term?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Shekinah always carefully considers what she is going to say before saying it . When Shekinah is over her shock and has had time to think, will she tell the cameras that she has decided to... (A) forgive Sarper and get back together with him again, or (B) end the relationship?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Sarper was really triggered by Shekinah not wanting the vanity. Was Sarper triggered by the situation because... (A) that meant he did not have a gift for Shekinah on this birthday they were celebrating together, or (B) he probably had already paid for vanity ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Shekinah likes and counts on Sarper's commitment to perfection in every aspect of their lives together. Does Shekinah's new nose meet the expectations of 'perfection' she had of Sarper's talent for designing it ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
It is natural for Joanne's Ideas Connector personality to think about all the different possibilities in a situation. Is Joanne considering more ways to schedule her time together with Sean than she is revealing to him or to the cameras ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Sean likes to have a plan for all aspects of his life. And, he has a very active Physical Changemaker Personality Bodyguard which tends to react intensely when life does not as planned. If Joanne decides that she needs to revamp the "6 wks in Ireland, 2 wks in the US" plan, will Sean care more about... (A) supporting her process of figuring out how much time they can spend together, or (B) making sure she knows how he feels about plans changing ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Explorer, Sophie feels loved when she feels good in her body, and about her body, in that moment. If Rob and Sophie go to therapy together, will that help bring more heart-felt romance into their relationship?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Rob has always been aware of what he is presenting to the cameras. But he did not expect to be edited in the way that he was. Is Rob so much calmer on camera than he was earlier in the season because... (A) therapy is changing his perspective on being together with Sophie, or (B) he realizes that his earlier behavior was edited in a way that he did not expect ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Connector, Michael flows with change, even when it catches him off guard. Did Michael expect to be leaving Angela's house so soon after arriving in the US?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Angela has an entirely Physical Personality Triad. So she never wanted to give up on the chance that the rest of her life could include the physical experience of sex with Michael. Does Angela regret getting together with Michael?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As an Ideas Connector, Ashley most of the time has lots of mixed feelings going through her mind. Is Ashley really feeling as calm as she seems when she talks to the cameras about moving forward together with Manuel?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Manuel expected that life in the US would feel empowering and raise his status in the eyes of his family. Which hurts Manuel more... (A)not having money to send to his family, or (B)not feeling loved by Ashley when they are together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Jasmine passed the lie-detector test questions about cheating and being attracted to Gino. Did Jasmine pause before answering the polygraph questions to... (A)add to the suspense, or (B)calm her nerves so the lie-detector wouldn't pick up on her nervousness?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
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The 'Love Bodyguard' in Thais' Personality Triad is the Ideas Explorer which craves a deep emotional connection when she is together with her husband. Who has a deeper emotional connection with her husband... Thais or Lauren ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Thais ♥ Lauren ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector in the public eye, Thais puts the Tell-All's needs above her own, and resents that Lauren does not have to be together with the group doing the same. Does Thais resent Lauren leaving the Tell-All early because... (A) Thais really feels that the group will miss out from Lauren not being there, or (B) Thais feels trapped in the Tell-All and in her home life, and thinks it's not fair that Lauren gets what she wants in both? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Connector, Thais is a natural leader who needs the chance to lead both inside and outside of the home. Will Thais agree to stay together with Patrick even if he ignores what she wants for her life?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Connector, Lauren is very tuned in to how people relate to her. So as soon as Jasmine picked up on their shared experience together on set, Lauren felt a connection. Is the connection Lauren felt with Jasmine more about (A) the experiences they share, or (B) the personality they share?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Manuel needs to feel that he has power over his own life, and can protect his family even if he is not together with them. Was Manuel crying because of something to do with... (A) his personal relationship with Ashley, or (B) his family?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Joanne's Ideas Connector personality often feels mixed emotions that play together in her mind, making it difficult to reach final decisions that she knows affect people she loves. Is Joanne actually prepared to let go of her plans to move to Ireland if her boys ask her not to?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Joanne has kept her marriage to Sean a secret for their two years together. When Joanne's sons find out that she has been married to Sean for 2 years and plans on moving to Ireland, will they... (A) focus on their feelings of betrayal/discomfort, or (B) give Sean a fighting chance to win them over ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Lovers feel compatible when together their Core Personalities feel accepted unconditionally by each other. Ingi's Physical Explorer Core Personality prefers not to take life too seriously. Corona's Physical Changemaker Core Personality takes life very seriously. Is there any chance that Corona and Ingi will ever feel compatible together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Corona's Physical Changemaker personality has no tolerance for Ingi's dismissive response to her being upset when they are together. Would Corona be more upset if Ingi... (A) did not show her affection, or (B) did not treat her career goals seriously? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Meitalia's Social Explorer Personality has the ability to accept other people's decisions about her life. But what her parents want from the life she shares with James conflicts with what he wants for their life together. Whose priorities have more influence over Meitalia's life together with James?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ James ♥ her Parents ♥ ♥ Previous
All three Personality Types in James' Triad are Social Personalities. That means that the way he sees himself is based 100% on how he relates together with others. If James lived somewhere that gave him a large social network, would he be a happier person?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
John's Ideas Connector Personality Bodyguard makes communicating together much more natural for him than it is for his brother, Patrick. If Patrick asked John to change his attitude toward Thais when he visits their house, would John... (A) try his best to go along, or (B) brush off his brother's request and ignore it?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Patrick's Physical Connector Personality, wants a son he can be the best dad to, so together they can share the perfect father-son relationship Patrick never had growing up. Is it fair of Patrick to say that he wants to keep having more kids until they have a boy?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Thais' Social Connector Personality is a natural leader who has chosen the home as the domain for her leadership. If John understood that Thais' home is the domain where she brings all her leadership energy, would he make an effort to show her that respect when they are together at home?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Sophie and Rob both have the Physical Changemaker Personality Bodyguard. So the way each of them tries to make their life together better is to pressure the other person to change. Whose Physical Changemaker Personality Bodyguard is more intense?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Sophie ♥ Rob ♥ ♥ Previous
It may come as a surprise that John and Sophie have the same Personality Triad. Both are Physical Explorers who need to feel good in their bodies in order to feel motivated in life. Does Sophie become emotionally intense because... (A) she likes it, or (B) it's the only way she can express the despair her body feels?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Physical Changemaker, Angela likes proving her ability to do things in the world that no one thought she could do. Whether she proved that Michael loved or conned her, getting together with him would feel like a win. With no love from Michael, and no proof that he scammed her, should Angela still support him?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Michael's Ideas Connector personality has a talent for telling stories that people want to believe. Does Michael spend a lot of time thinking about how he will respond to questions other couples ask him when they are all together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Todd, the private investigator, did not volunteer even one fact about Michael even though he supposedly had almost 200 pages of information about him. Is the reason Todd did not offer any info about Michael together with anyone because... (A) he thought it wasn't worth sharing because it did not prove Michael was a cheater or a scammer, or (B) there is a reason he wanted or needed to shut down the investigation?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Dempsey's Physical Explorer Core Personality wants Statler to enjoy van life together as much she does. But Dempsey's Personality Triad also has the Ideas Connector which can allow anxiety to catch her off guard too. When van life hits unexpected bumps in the road, which one of them will be keeping their energy calm. and their plans together on track?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Statler ♥ Dempsey ♥ ♥ Previous
We feel compatible with someone when our Core Personality feels accepted by them unconditionally. Statler and Dempsey fully accept one another when they are having a good time. But stress can get in the way of that acceptance. Which of them has doubts about their compatibility... Statler, Dempsey or Both? (Click any that apply) Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Statler ♥ Dempsey ♥ ♥ Previous
Both Statler and Dempsey have the Ideas Connector in their Personality Triads. So it is very important to both of them that their thoughts & feelings are seen when they are together. As a couple, do Statler and Dempsey together care as much about each other's thoughts and feelings as they do about their own ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Thais and Patrick both have Core Connector personalities. So they both care deeply about how they are seen separately and together by the world. When Thais and Patrick have disagreements with no cameras watching, whose behavior is more different from how they act on screen?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Patrick ♥ Thais ♥ ♥ Previous
Thais' Social Connector personality feels responsible that her friend ended up feeling hurt the first time Thais invited her to meet together with Patrick and John in Brazil. When Thais brings up what happened between her friend and John, is she more upset with... (A) John for not being polite after her friend criticized him, or(B) Patrick for not taking her side against John when they are all together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
John's Physical Explorer personality is naturally chill. But if he feels attacked when they all get together, his Physical Changemaker Bodyguard takes over and starts fighting back. Was John right to feel attacked when they were all together, and Thais' friend accused him of being a bad influence on Patrick?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Angela's Physical Changemaker personality needs to feel that she can create the life she wants for herself. If Angela's and Michael's relationship ends, will Angela give up on love, or get together with someone else?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Give up ♥ Keep looking ♥ ♥ Previous
Michael's Ideas Connector personality survives by tuning into what people around him are thinking and feeling. Has Michael's survival depended on his ability to get together with people he did not know and influence them ever since he was very young?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Meitalia's Social Explorer personality needs to feel connected together with community to feel good about her life. Does Meitalia resent James for the 2+ years that she had to live in the U.S. without community?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Angela has the Physical Explorer Personality Bodyguard in her Triad. That means she trusts love when she feels it in her body. When Michael is satisfying Angela sexually, is he feeling it together with her, or is it just survival sex for him?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ feeling it ♥ survival ♥ ♥ Previous
As a Social Changemaker personality, James feels lost when he is together with someone but does not have the ability to give them what they need. Since James does not see a way to take care of Meitalia in Indonesia, should he still try to stay and work it out, or should he return to the U.S.?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ stay there ♥ come back ♥ ♥ Previous
For Lily's Social Connector personality, having success together with her husband is very important. For Lily and Josh together, which kind of success does Lily care about more... Love or Money? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Love ♥ Money ♥ ♥ Previous
Corona has been leaning into her Personality Bodyguards to build her relationship with Ingi. Her Physical Explorer Bodyguard is the feel-good queen. Her Physical Connector Bodyguard gives her the ability to choose self-control and 'soft partnering when they are together. When Corona finally reveals her Core Physical Changemaker (not just her Bodyguards) to Ingi, will he be... (A) open to it, or (B) scared off ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Corona's Physical Changemaker personality is naturally intense. Ingi's Physical Explorer personality is naturally laid back. Their desire to get together is a real life example of how opposites attract. Will Corona's and Ingi's 'opposites attract' chemistry last long enough for them to fall in love?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Together, Shekinah's Core Physical Connector personality and Physical Changemaker Bodyguard prefer not to show vulnerability. But for Physical Connectors, that is actually because they are deeply sensitive to every imperfection in the world as if it is happening in their own body. So they survive by imagining and creating a life that is as perfect as possible Is Shekinah's choice to not have kids together with Sarper influenced by thinking that it would be traumatic for a child to have Sarper as a dad?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Option1 ♥ Option2 ♥ ♥ Previous
Sarper's Physical Changemaker personality wants more than anything to have power and control over his life. But the more that desire drives him, the more his OCD takes that control away. Does being together with Shekinah help Sarper feel more in control of his own life, not just hers?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Shekinah's Physical Connector Personality carefully considers all the facts together before making any important life decision. Which fact makes Shekinah more suspicious of Sarper's promise that he wants to be together forever... (A) Sarper holding on to his bottle collection, or (B) Sarper telling Nur he loved her when they were together ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Shekinah has the Social Explorer Personality Bodyguard. And Sarper has the Physical Explorer Personality Bodyguard. That means that Shekinah needs to feel love in all aspects of how they relate together; and Sarper needs to feel love mostly in his body. Who will feel more invested in the relationship after having so much physical intimacy together in Turkiye?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Shekinah ♥ Sarper ♥ ♥ Previous
Sarper's Physical Changemaker personality is motivated by challenges that empower him, like changing his body as a teenager, from overweight to a body that is seen as perfect. Is Sarper's decision to be together with Shekinah and give up his f-boy lifestyle motivated by the desire to prove himself the way he did as a teenager when he lost hundreds of pounds and became super fit?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Rob's Physical Connector personality cares about being a decent person. So whether or not he stays together with Sophie, he wants to treat her with common courtesy. Does Rob love Sophie?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Liz's Personality Triad includes an Ideas Explorer Bodyguard. That means that love lives in her heart and mind more than in her body. Is there any part of Liz's heart that still wants to be together with Ed?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Patrick, Lauren and Jasmine all have the Physical Connector Core Personality which strives for perfection in the body and in life. Does anyone you know strive for perfection in a way that reminds you of any of these Physical Connectors?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Sophie's Physical Explorer personality wants her husband to make her feel good in her body whether they are living together or not. Is the reason that Rob does not act the way Sophie wants him to, because... (A) he does not understand what she wants, or (B) it is not natural for his personality to act that way ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Manuel's Physical Changemaker personality will do anything to protect his family even when he cannot be together with them. Does Manuel think that he needs to keep details from Ashley even though they are together, in order to protect his family?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Lily's Social Connector personality knows how to communicate to get what she wants, especially after spending a lot of time together. With Lily and Josh together, and Lily sharing facts about her life, is she usually... (A) being honest, or (B) just saying what he wants to hear? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Josh's Physical Connector personality values things that have Both comfort and beauty. So he was happy to pay for the high-end Chinese wedding robes. With Lily and Josh together, did Josh request the Chinese wedding as Lily said he did, or does he really not care if they get to have a Chinese wedding together? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ requested it ♥ doesn't care ♥ ♥ Previous
Lily's Social Connector personality wants Josh to follow her lead when they are together. With Lily and Josh together, does Lily want to lead the relationship because... (A) she does not want him to get stressed, or (B) she has an ulterior motive for wanting to be together with him ? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Dempsey's Core Physical Explorer personality wants her life and her love to come together in a way that is fun and exciting. Is Dempsey more in love with Statler or with living the van lifestyle together with someone?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Statler ♥ Lifestyle ♥ ♥ Previous
Both Statler and Dempsey have the Physical Explorer in their Personality Triads. So they both trust love when they feel it in their bodies together. Whose love is true? Click on either Statler or Dempsy or both...Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Statler ♥ Dempsey ♥ ♥ Previous
Statler's Ideas Connector personality has so many thoughts and feelings always rushing through her mind. Once Statler and Dempsey are together, living the van life, will Statler's feelings... (A) calm down, or (B) become even more confused ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
For Ingi's Physical Explorer personality, feeling good in the moment is his biggest motivator to stay together. After they start living together, what will Ingi feel more often... (A) moments with Corona that feel good or (B) moments with Corona that feel stressful?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Corona's Physical Changemaker personality will always like taking risks, whether she is single or together with someone. What is more risky for Corona... (A) moving across the world for a guy who has never been in a relationship, or (B) turning down the top-tier educational opportunity she fought so hard to get ?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ answer A ♥ answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Corona and Ingi both have the Physical Changemaker (which is comfortable with confrontation) in their Personality Triads. For Corona, it is her Core Personality, and always close to the surface. But for Ingi, it is just a Bodyguard that he prefers to avoid. As Corona's Physical Changemaker Core Personality continues to show itself as they spend more time together, will Ingi... (A) match her confrontational energy with his own, or (B) quietly back away from the relationship?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Meitalia's Social Explorer Personality can often feel overwhelmed and stressed standing up for herself. So by the time she finally does tell her husband what is on her mind, it comes with a lot of agitation which leaves them feeling stressed together. Does James see Meitalia's emotional intensity as a sign that she is... (A) overwhelmed and stressed, or (B) confident in expressing herself?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Meitalia and James both have personalities that are comfortable following someone else's lead. When they are together in Indonesia, which one of them will take the lead more, James or Meitalia?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Meitalia ♥ James ♥ ♥ Previous
Shekinah's Physical Connector personality wants life to feel as perfect as possible whether she is single or is together with Sarper. Does Sarper have what it takes to give Shekinah the love she expects after all she gave up so they could be together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Shekinah and Sarper both have the Physical Connector Personality in their Triads. Together, they want to be seen for what they have achieved through hard work, which for both of them is near 'perfection' in their bodies. Does sharing the Physical Connector add compatibility or competition to the life they share together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Compatibility ♥ Competition ♥ ♥ Previous
Michael's Ideas Connector personality often has conflicting thoughts and feelings together in his mind at the same time. So he could truly have mixed feelings about Angela. Or, he could pretend to love her even when he has not real desire to be with her. Does Michael... (A) truly have mixed feelings about Angela , or (B) just pretend to love Angela even though he never really wanted to be together with her?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Angela's Physical Changemaker personality needs to feel empowered in her body whether she is by herself or together in a relationship. When Angela is together with Michael, does she feel more empowered from... (A) having sex with him, or (B) knowing that she has the power to give him a chance at a better life?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Answer A ♥ Answer B ♥ ♥ Previous
Alexei's Social Explorer Core Personality wants to unconditionally accept every moment of the life he has together with his family. But he is physically and emotionally exhausted. Is Lauren worried that Alexei will stop being as supportive if he feels she is not spending enough time with the family or prioritizing him enough?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Lauren's Physical Connector personality is a natural perfectionist about her body and the life she has together with her husband and kids. Will Lauren insist on having more plastic surgery even after she sees how much it would upset Alexei and add stress to their time together?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Patrick's Physical Connector personality does not like feeling vulnerable even when he is spending time together with his wife. Would Thais and Patrick have a stronger marriage together if he shared his emotions more often?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Thais' Social Connector personality is a natural leader. Patricks Physical Connector Personality likes to be appreciated for working hard and following the rules. So, life together works well as long as they agree about what they want. If Thais and Patrick disagree about important life decisions they have to make together, who has the final say?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ Patrick ♥ Thais ♥ ♥ Previous
Jasmine's Physical Connector personality will do anything and everything she can to take care of her family and get back together with them as soon as possible. Will being together with Gino ever give Jasmine the family life she wants? Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Sophie and Rob both have the Physical Changemaker personality bodyguard which responds to conflict by doubling down and expecting the other person to change. When both people in a relationship do that, being together feels more and more stressful. Will either Rob or Sophie ever want to be together enough to be truly open to the other person's perspective?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Ashley's Ideas Connector personality needs to feel in the loop of her husband's life, especially when she has given her all to be together with him. If Manuel keeps refusing to tell Ashley what's going on in his life, will she not want to stay together, and actually end the marriage?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ no ♥ yes ♥ ♥ Previous
Manuel's Physical Changemaker personality wants to be together with Ashley without having to feel vulnerable. Will Manuel ever choose to be together with Ashley the way she wants him to be, completely open about his fears and struggles?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ yes ♥ no ♥ ♥ Previous
Kobe's Social Explorer personality wants to accept everyone together unconditionally. But he feels stuck between supporting his wife Emily and honoring his friend Valery. Will Kobe let his friendship with Valery keep him from appreciating the life he has together with Emily and the kids in the US?Click any Heart that applies... ♥ No ♥ Yes ♥ ♥ Previous
